Living the Gospel Joyful by Dieter F. Uchtdorf I have set a goal to read and reflect on the 39 addresses given at the general conference sessions of the Church of Jesus-Christ of Latter-day Saints between now and Christmas. So, here goes #1. Elder Uchtdorf talks about the women who have influenced him most in his life. His wife, he says, "...has been the strength in [their] home during both good times and bad. She brings sunshine into the lives of all who know her." I don't know if David could say any of those things about me. I feel like I have really turned into more of a burden than a blessing to him. I constantly feel anxious and am frequently in pain. I have a strong desire to figure out how to cope better with my physical and mental turmoil. I was to be a ray of sunshine, not a gloomy cloud. I love the idea that "God knows something we don't." I've always thought that, especially when it comes to obeying commandments that ...