Expressions of Love

Our lesson in Relief Society today was about eternal marriage. I am so grateful for the most perfect husband ever. Yes, he has his flaws, just like all of us, but he is so super perfect for me that I can hardly stand it sometimes. He is the most kind, positive, creative, selfless, productive, encouraging, helpful, generous, responsible, handsome, thoughtful, wonderful person I know. I am humbled to think that I get to be his best friend forever and ever and that he actually chose me! What a steal! Today, marriage is often considered disposable or even inconvenient or unnecessary. Luckily, I found one who is willing to throw himself into anything that will make my life better and he is in it for good. I can't imagine a day without this amazing man. He teaches me, strengthens me, and brings me joy. Marriage is not an activity, it is as James E. Faust said, "a joint quest for the good, the beautiful and the divine. This is the grandest quest I could have ever started and I get to do it with my best friend. Forever isn't nearly long enough.

I watched a cute video clip about expressing love to your spouse. I hope I can do a better job of bringing him the delights of life like he brings me.

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Their Proper Place

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